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- Conversations with God Book 3


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Daily Thought


I am always in touch with your deepest desire, and I always give you that

- Book Three p 20




Bulletin #851


May 3, 2019

Never Give Up on Life's Dream

A Note from Neale

Hello, Everyone...

You must never give up.

No matter how hopeless it might seem, you must never give up Love's Dream.

And no, it is not required that living The Dream must hurt. If it hurts, you are not living The Dream, you are living a nightmare and calling it a dream, hoping that it will become one.

Stop it. Stop the struggling. The Dream has no struggle in it. If you are struggling, you are not living The Dream.

Now "struggle" does not mean the small discomforts or the once-in-a-while feelings of not-okayness that are encountered by any two people who have chosen to be together intimately. It does not mean the little differences that from time to time have to be worked out. "Struggle" means just that: struggle. Ongoing difficulty. Frequent and recurring and serious discord, disharmony, disagreement.

"Struggle" means that things that ought to be simple become complex, moments which could easily be serene erupt into turmoil. Nervousness replaces excitement, sadness replaces bliss, walking on eggshells replaces walking on clouds.

You are struggling in your relationship when wariness overcomes eagerness, when pain pushes happiness out of the room...and when this happens often. Not once in a while. Not now and then. Often.

One can't ever fully relax anymore. Just when it seems like, well, this isn't so bad, I can make this work...boom...the door slams, the bomb drops, the sweetness crashes and reveals itself to be not the stuff of sturdiness that can be counted on, but an oh-so-fragile thing that cannot withstand even the gentle touch of intimacy.

I am asked, more than any other single question about relationship: When is it time to leave? When is it time to quit?

I am asked: How do I know I am not supposed to be here, learning something? How do I know that this is not all for my own good, my own evolution? How do I know that I am not just "giving up" – again...?

I am asked: What does it take to make "love" work? And I answer, "Love should not be work. Love should be play. It should feel playful and joyful, not stressful."

The intimate relationships in many people's lives have not been long lasting. Happily Ever After has not been a universal (or even a common) experience. Indeed, it must sometimes seem to many that there is just no way to do this thing called Relationship and do it well.

People look in the mirror and ask, "Is it only me who has not been given the necessary equipment? It is only me who lacks sufficient understanding? It is only me who falls short on willingness or commitment or determination or skill or patience or selflessness or whatever-in-the-world-it-takes to make Happily Ever After work?"

Or is it that human beings are simply chasing an impossible dream? Is The Dream of real and lasting and wonderfully joyful love nothing but a fantasy that can never be fulfilled?

No. I don't believe that. And I believe that people who have tried and tried and failed have, at least, the opportunity to learn from their experience. There is no such thing as a lost cause. Love's Dream can be lived. That is God's promise.

There are couples who have lived it, who have made it to the Promised Land. Some found each other early in life, some found each other later, after much trial and error with others. All has not been perfect on their journey, all has not been smiles and laughter in every moment. But much of it has been. And all of it has been worth it. Every minute has been worth it.

There are those who say you have to "work" at relationship. Anything worth having is worth working for, the mantra goes. Okay. Fair enough. But this should be the kind of "work" that feels soooo good to do. Like Barbra Streisand singing. Like Richard Gere dancing. Like Nancy Kerrigan on ice. Like Anna Pavlova and Vaslav Nijinsky and Mikhail Baryshnikov in ballet shoes. Like Warren Spahn throwing a baseball. Yes, there's work involved...but oh, the joy of it, the sheer joy of it!

Yes, love — real love, true love, lasting love — may be "work," but it should be a work of art. It should be something you love to do. A wise person once said, "May you always love the loving you are doing."

Look at your relationship right now. Are you loving the loving you are doing?

If you love the loving you are doing, it is not "work" in the sense of being a struggle. It is a joy. Working to create something is very much different from working to hold something together. Everyone who has done both knows the difference. You can feel the difference, and no one has to tell you what is going on.

It has to do with effort and ease.

You know if, in your relationship, you are at a place of effort or if you are at ease.

Barbra Streisand sings effortlessly. The breathless grace of Nancy Kerrigan is effortless. That is precisely what makes it breathless grace. This is not to say that no "work" went into it. Surely it did. But joy came out of it. Work went in, and joy came out. When work goes in and joy does not come out, then "work" has become "effort."

This is the state of many relationships.

When is enough enough?

That question cannot be answered by anyone other than the person asking it. But the question rarely goes without answer. The issue is not whether the person asking the question KNOWS the answer, but whether the person HEEDS it.

Love and Hugs,

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Through the years the Weekly Bulletin and its articles written by Neale Donald Walsch have become a favorite in the email boxes of thousands of readers around the world. We are pleased to present in this space, in addition to Neale's newest articles, occasional selections from the very best of his past writings for this publication. We do not wish our scores of readers to miss any of these commentaries, showing us the way to apply CWG in our daily lives. Whether a new presentation or an encore printing, we trust that you will receive much value from these writings from the man who brought us Conversations with God.

Letters to Neale:

Reader question:

Dear Neale,

I have read three of your books and agree with much of what is written. How do parents cope when children have sex without inhibitions, get pregnant and the partner is not willing to support them, and society is not set up so that older people can take over the bringing up of the children?

We are in this situation with our beautiful, loving daughter who cannot cope with bringing up three children on her own. Sex has not proved to be a joyful, happy, playful experience for her, or her family. How can we put the CwG suggestions into practice to help change her world?



Neale Responds:

Dear Natali,

Sex and pregnancy do not have to go hand in hand. In this day and age, there are many means by which the two can be separated. In addition, it is important to point out that whenever CwG speaks about the joys of sexual pleasure, it speaks in terms of responsible sex. "Uninhibited" sex does not mean "irresponsible" sex. Indeed, it means just exactly the opposite. Only when total responsibility has been taken can partners truly feel totally uninhibited.

Taking responsibility means, among other things, finding out ahead of time if both partners in the sexual experience are willing to take responsibility for whatever outcomes may occur. If the answer is "no," simply stay out of intimate contact. Taking responsibility also means taking every possible precaution to avoid pregnancy, if pregnancy is not a desired outcome. With due respect to your daughter, Natali, I find myself wondering whether she and her partner(s?) took these steps.

Finally, Natali, if they did take these steps, and an unwanted pregnancy resulted nevertheless, there was always the option of placing the baby up for adoption. There are thousands of people around the world who are standing in line right now for babies. Your daughter, for whatever reasons, apparently decided not to exercise this or other options, but to raise all of the children she has birthed.

I hope that I do not appear to be simplifying a very delicate and difficult challenge that your daughter is facing, but I would like to gently suggest that the problem was not how joyful, playful or uninhibited her sexual experiences were, but, rather, how clear she was about her decisions regarding pregnancy and children both before and after those experiences.

Now, you have asked, "How can we put the CwG suggestions into practice to help change her world?" My answer would be to, first, resist the temptation to place anyone else at "fault" here. Everybody had a role to play in the creation of the present circumstances, and everyone played their role. There are no victims and no villains here.

This understanding alone will change much of the energy of hopelessness and helplessness that stops life from being joyous. That is, of course, the goal. That life be joyous. And then, that the joy we experience be passed on, to help create a more joyful world.

Your daughter, and you, can be the source of Joy for all of the world you touch. Your daughter can cope with bringing up three children on her own. Others have done it. It is a question of attitude, of intent, of determination. And of faith. Faith in life and faith in God.

If your daughter has faith that all things have turned out and turned up in her life for the highest good of all concerned, she will embark on each day with a remarkably different attitude. She will develop a very real love of life, no matter how hard it is, and a very real friendship with God. This, in turn, will draw to her what all positive thinkers draw to themselves: great energy and surprising resources. Even miracles.

I strongly encourage both you and your daughter to read (don't laugh now, I'm serious about this) The Power of Positive Thinking, by Norman Vincent Peale. I'm sure you can get it at any library. It is a bit traditional in its theology, but its overarching messages are clear — and it is powerful. I further recommend Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting, by Lynn Grabhorn. It discusses the astonishing power of feelings. Thanks for writing, Natali. I hope this has been of some help.

Many blessings,

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We’re in Trouble. But There Is Help... If We Listen.

Is it possible that everything we think we know about God, and what God wants, is wrong?

In the middle of the night on August 2, 2016, Neale Donald Walsch found himself drawn into a new and totally unexpected dialogue with God in which he suddenly faced two questions:

Is the human race being offered help by Highly Evolved Beings from Another Dimension?

Is there a key role that humans are being invited to play in advancing their own evolution by joining in a mutual mission to assist the planet during the critical times ahead?

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